I mentioned that my son’s medical program would interfere with my business because it required a big time investment on my part along with other things. Add to that managing the usual stuff like the other kids, work (or lack thereof), household responsibilities, on and on.
After two weeks of the program, I reached a breaking point. Like, the car ran out of gas plus it needed a serious washing as it looked battered and worn despite its young age. Thank goodness, my clients understood my availability. But that didn’t keep me from feeling bad about not working full-time.
So I had to make adjustments to my work and life so I could feel less guilty, prevent stress overload, and serve my clients as best as I could during this time. Here’s what worked for me:
- Email clients: I let them know of the situation and explained I needed to make priority adjustments. All of them understood.
- Take care of quick hits ASAP: One client sends me five minute editing tasks. So when she sends one in, I do it right there as it’s as fast as reading an email. Plus, it feels great to have one thing done.
- Exercise: I stick to my tennis drill and match schedule. I had to find a sub for one match, but made the rest of them. Thank goodness I have a sweet dog. She forces me to take a walk mid-day. If I don’t, then I’ll spend more time cleaning up after her than walking her.
- Listen to music: I’ve been listening to more music in the past month than I have in the past year. As a deaf person, I don’t have a passion for music like most folks do. But I’ve put in more hours on the road than usual and my car comes with an adapter that plugs right into my iPod. Furthermore, I discovered a iTunes lyrics feature that revived my enjoyment of music. The hard part… discovering new songs.
- Stay on track with the family: Although family is the reason I’m spending more time away from the office than usual, we still have our usual daily activities and goings-on. Gotta keep moving with those as they keep things consistent. Despite the unusual schedule, I managed to work on a jigsaw puzzle and played a couple of board games with my family.
- Cut out tasks where possible. I cut back on blogging and visiting blogs (I know… I hate missing out on community), but these will always be there. The web site won’t come crashing and my blog buddies don’t take attendance. I also limit my non-profit organization officer duties to urgent and time sensitive things. The rest can wait as I have all year.
Just thinking of the week ahead (last week before school starts) overwhelms me. Meetings, registration, several gatherings, meet the teacher, and on and on. I check my calendar to see what’s on the agenda for the next day. But then I pull back and focus on here and now while preparing for whatever comes early tomorrow.
How do you pull through stressful times?
How do I handle stress? With a stash of chocolate in my desk drawer. 🙂
Like you, I’ve been adjusting a few things here and there to get other things done. I’m now ready for the kids to get back to school and get us all back into a routine.
And P.S.– check out these John Denver songs:
Looking for Space
Children of the Universe
Flight
and there’s always Billy Joel, another easy to follow musician!
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I love Billy Joel especially “We Didn’t Start the Fire.” I know… that’s a hard one, but I’ve heard it over and over enough that I can follow some of it. Thanks for the other recommendations, Karen!
I’m glad you’re taking care of yourself, Meryl. That’s the most important thing you can do. And we are here for you, and our blogs will be here when you get back. 🙂
On a side note, I’m wishing I had a newer generation iPod for the lyrics feature. That sounds awesome!
Dawn
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@Dawn, thank you. What iPod do you have? I have a 2nd generation iPod Nano and the lyrics feature is there. Open iTunes, pick a song, right-click Get Info, select the Lyrics tab and enter the lyrics there.
Meryl — Don’t get me started talking about stress. LOL I quit smoking six months ago, and finding other ways to manage stress hasn’t been easy. I’ve found that going for walks helps. I don’t know what I’m going to do in winter. 😐
Wow, Amy — that’s a biggie. Be proud! Think of how people will appreciate your not passing second hand smoke to them anymore.
Yeah, winter is tough… I have to walk my dog no matter the weather. Can you drive to a mall and walk there?
I don’t drive, so I am going to have to figure out something else. Like moving to San Francisco. LOL
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