Welcome to meryl’s notes blog (this here place you’re lookin’ at) in Plano, Texas. We’re honored to be a stop in Margo Candela’s WOW! Women On Writing Blog tour. We’re giving away a copy of her book, Goodbye To All That. Read on to see how you can win.

Published Author Seeks Agent by Margo Candela
It’s inevitable. You get a group of writers together, either just starting out or who have a book or two on the shelves of Barnes & Noble, and eventually the conversation will turn to agents. Writers love to talk about agents, sometimes obsessively. How to get one to notice you? Who’s the best? Why they’re so mean and who’s a flake and shouldn’t be trusted. Besides writing, many writers also like to gossip and I’ll fess up to having done my share.
As of last count I’ve worked with three agents and one literary manager. Even I have to admit that’s a lot, but two became editors and two I fired. (Which is a whole other story.) What I’ve learned since signing my first agency contract in 2005 is that agents are regular people. They have personal problems and short attention spans. They move from agency to agency and sometimes leave the business altogether. As soon as I accepted that agents are human, it made doing business (or not) with them a lot easier for me.
After pretending for a long while that I didn’t need or want an agent, I’m once again up to my neck in the agent pool. This time, though, I’m not sending out blind queries and hoping for the best. I’ve asked a couple people who I trust if they have any names for me and they’ve sent feelers out on my behalf. Having been through the agent search process before, I can attest that this is the best way to go about it. Of course, it helps that I have a track record — I have published four novels, meet my deadlines and don’t have a bad reputation in publishing. I’m lucky to finally know people who genuinely want the best for me.

Even with some valuable introductions, I still have to make a good impression because I’m also being vetted. I’ve learned to be honest about what level of attention I expect from an agent and I’m always very careful to never smack talk anyone I’ve worked with even though it might make for some juicy gossip to bond over.
Don’t get me wrong, it’s still very awkward to have to admit that even though I’m published, I don’t have an agent. People do look at me like I’m some sort of weirdo or maybe an under-medicated diva. All I can do is let my work speak for itself and hope that my next agent is my last.
Win: For a chance to win a copy of Goodbye To All That, please leave a comment at least 50 words long about connecting with an agent, publisher, client or colleague through word of mouth. You have until 11:59pm on September 23, 2010 to qualify for the drawing. The unbiased and robotic Random.org has the honor of picking the winner.
Hi folks,
I may not have WOM experience when it comes to the publishing world but I do know that in most every other aspect of life WOM works. I’ve bought great used cars, found apartments, met some fantastic people and gotten a writing gig or two.
I won’t discount the value of other marketing methods – because this really is about marketing – but I think a balanced approach is best.
Sorry I’ve been away so much Meryl. Hope all is well.
George
@George, no apologies! I’m lucky that you are a repeat visitor 🙂 I am a believer in WOM as I landed most of my clients that way.
I have done my share of agent hunting, having been rejected by 51 of them! On the whole, they were “nice” rejections in that they offered lots of praise for my writing and my story. But in the end, they still didn’t have the gumption to take a chance on me. So, I too, am agent-less despite the fact that my first novel is hitting shelves next month. We’ll see if they decide I am worth their time after I sell a few books (I hope!).
@Lucie, I admire you! I love that you kept moving forward and it sounds like you have a great attitude. We all need to remember that rejections aren’t a reflection of our work — bigger picture at play here for the agents.